In order to fully live our life and grow spiritually, we need to learn to follow our heart. It may sounds easy, but many still struggle to do it. Why?
Guidances from heart is usually contradict to what we were taught, social norms and culture. We are all different, and our differences are things that we should embrace. And, we will discover that our differences and uniqueness can give something special to others.
Our heart is complex and sometimes its guidance is beyond our capability to reason it. Sometimes, we analyze choices, try to see the pros/cons, consult others on our choices and follow the path that may not feel right to us. Sometimes, we just have to take a deep breath and follow the path that feels right.
Feels like we would disappoint others (They would expect us to do something else and they would judge us if don’t). We are the ones who know ourselves the best, so the person who makes the best decision for you is you. The truth is people think of themselves most of the time. They only have small time to think about others. We may feel like there are judgements from others when we choose something difference. It is normal, we just have to acknowledge it, but do not allow it to affect us. And whatever path we choose, people who love you are going to love you.
Sometimes, we might we feel that we have chosen a difficult path. There are lots of obstacles along the way. What ever path we choose, there will we obstacles and it won’t always be easy. We just have to walk at our pace, step by step. Learn and grow from the journey.
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